If he walks like a boyfriend, and he talks like a boyfriend, he must be a boyfriend, right? Alas, for Roommate it was not so easy. For approximately half of that seven month period, she and her gentleman played a passive-aggressive game of “Who Can Care Less?” He avoided discussion, and she refused to force the issue, lest she morph into one of those snake-haired, psychotic boyfriend hunters that twenty-something New York men have learned to fear and loathe.
-Caryrandolph (via vodkaphonics)
I was one of those girls last fall who “refused to push a guy into a relationship” and you know what happened after a while? He got bored of me and stopped calling. Now I’m single. Thats my story, but I learned a really valuable lesson. If you really want to be in a relationship with someone YOU NEED TO TELL THEM. I will never do it again.
(via littlelg)
I’ve played this game before! Last fall/winter to be precise. It was a good time and severely fucked me up. But hey, at least I can admit it and try to move on. Key word: try. Someday I won’t think all guys are scum, someday :)
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Both men and women are totally stupid about relationships in NYC. Showing feelings is not allowed. Standoffs happen and...
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